I'm so sorry Tamara. Take the disability if you need to, it is money to help you get through it. I hope everything works out for you.

The most important thing is your well being - health. If you need to rest you, eventually you will have to rest. You are in this to win it. You beat cancer mentally.
As I first responder I would come into contact w patients frequently that were battling cancer, I would listen to their stories and see their strengths. I thought I was being supportive by telling them “ you are strong” you got this. It wasn’t until I received my first diagnosis that I realized that was a not nice thing to say. It was like a dismissal. Right now things seem up in turmoil for you. I am very sorry you are dealing w this. Believe me I can totally relate.
Cancer has a way of magnifying our lives. Our Nature is to hold on to what we feel is important to us. Coming to terms is a hard pill to swallow.
I used to get worked up over up coming scans. Like you I was healthy and always took care of myself. Then one day my baby sister said to me “why are you getting worked up over something you can’t control” ? Bottom line you are going to do whatever you got to do to beat this right? Focus on that. Cruise control.
Accepting this isn't easy, I know I can’t do it alone. With prayers, family, friends, a awesome medical team, and the people here its doable. There are resources to help. Speak w your oncologist Nurse Navigator they know resources to help.
Most importantly you must communicate your struggles. Otherwise they can’t help.
You will be in my prayer’s 🙏🏻

I hope you feel better soon. Re: work, is FMLA an option? Under FMLA you can't be fired for having to take off as needed.

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Stop thinking of your self as sick. Your mindset makes all the difference. You can feel sick or you can realize it is a progression of treatment to rid yourself of or quieten the invader. Cancer, Stress and Mindset is a great book to start you in the right direction. Get plenty of rest, tackle one thing a day. Get outdoors.